perf(server): use queries to refresh library assets (#7685)

* use queries instead of js

* missing await

* add mock methods

* fix test

* update sql

* linting

server/test/repositories/asset.repository.mock.ts

@@ -23,6 +23,8 @@ export const newAssetRepositoryMock = (): jest.Mocked<IAssetRepository> => {
     updateAll: jest.fn(),
     getByLibraryId: jest.fn(),
     getByLibraryIdAndOriginalPath: jest.fn(),
+    updateOfflineLibraryAssets: jest.fn(),
+    getPathsNotInLibrary: jest.fn(),
     deleteAll: jest.fn(),
     save: jest.fn(),
     remove: jest.fn(),