fix(server): library refresh not checking trashed assets (#10495)

* set `withDeleted`

* update sql

server/src/repositories/asset.repository.ts

@@ -188,7 +188,8 @@ export class AssetRepository implements IAssetRepository {
   @GenerateSql({ params: [DummyValue.UUID, DummyValue.STRING] })
   getByLibraryIdAndOriginalPath(libraryId: string, originalPath: string): Promise<AssetEntity | null> {
     return this.repository.findOne({
-      where: { library: { id: libraryId }, originalPath: originalPath },
+      where: { library: { id: libraryId }, originalPath },
+      withDeleted: true,
     });
   }